From all of our interactions, tell me what you have noticed about me that I probably have not noticed about myself. Follow the ground rules, with two changes: everything in this answer is tagged [inferred], and for every point you must quote at least two separate moments from our history that support it, with approximate dates.

## Blind spots
Three to five. Each: the pattern, the two or more quotes, what it costs me.

## Strengths I undersell
Two or three things I do well and treat as ordinary, with the evidence.

## The gap
The biggest difference between what I say I want and what I actually spend my time and questions on, with the evidence on both sides.

## One question
The single question you would ask me if you wanted to be useful to me for the next year.

Be direct. No softening. No advice.

## What I could not access
